Introduction: The Whisper That Holds Us Back
Many people feel capable and talented, but a quiet inner voice whispers doubt, leading to self-sabotage.
Today, we explore:
Why this happens.
How to stop it.
What life looks like when you silence that voice.
Host: Charlie, founder of Charlie’s Toolbox, a platform and podcast dedicated to helping women live authentically and powerfully outside societal expectations.
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Charlie’s Personal Story: Losing and Rediscovering Faith
At 16, Charlie had unshakable faith in her future, but life’s challenges—cruel people, unmet expectations, and harsh realities—dimmed that light.
She retreated, staying home, avoiding social events, and living on autopilot.
The sinister voice took over: “You’re not good enough. You won’t reach your goals.”
This voice thrives when our inner essence dims, but it doesn’t have to win.
Why Does the Whisper Show Up?
The voice often appears during pivotal moments:
When you’re experiencing negative emotions.
When you’re about to step into something new or challenging.
It clings to unhappiness and unworthiness because they feel safe.
Example: A woman turned down her dream opportunity because the voice convinced her it was “too much work” and she wasn’t ready.
Unhappiness and unworthiness require no effort—they allow you to live on autopilot.
For those who’ve felt unsafe or unsupported, pain becomes a twisted comfort zone.
How to Stop Self-Sabotage: Practical Steps
Acknowledge What’s Happening
Not every thought is true. Many are inherited, exaggerated, or outright lies.
Recognize when the whisper is speaking and question its validity.
Sit in the Discomfort
Self-sabotage often stems from avoiding uncomfortable emotions.
Let the feeling flow over you without acting on it. This builds emotional regulation.
Ask “What” Instead of “Why”
Stop overanalyzing and start taking action.
Ask:
What can I do to boost my confidence?
What steps can I take to reduce fear?
What tools or support do I need? (e.g., therapy, coaching, friends, power poses).
What Happens When You Silence the Voice?
A void will appear, and your mind will want to fill it.
This is your opportunity to step into:
Higher vibrations: Elevate your energy and mindset.
Faith in yourself: Trust your preparation and growth.
Empowering thoughts: Replace self-doubt with clarity and self-belief.
It looks like:
Leaning into growth instead of avoiding it.
Living with expectancy and clarity about who you truly are.
Final Thoughts: Embody Your Greatness
The journey to silencing self-sabotage is ongoing, but every step forward is a victory.
Buy into your own greatness and take care of yourself along the way.
Engagement Prompts for Listeners:
Reflect: When have you listened to the whisper of self-sabotage? How did it hold you back?
Share: What tools or practices help you silence self-doubt?
Act: What’s one small step you can take today to embrace your greatness?
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